Friday, October 15, 2010

Linear time is so 19th century: A flashback to my last weekend in Jax

While I hold no strong philosophical objection to the natural linear progression of time, my iPhoto decided to go on strike at the particular moment that I would have liked to create a post.  So, in more modern narrativist fashion, this blog has forsaken linear time and returned to a more distant past than the previous entry. 


I've always thought of myself as rather adventurous, but my dear boyfriend provides constant reminders (usually through actions and less so through words) that insisting you are open-minded may often actually be a sign of closed-mindedness.

And so, we went on our first fishing trip together.  I would never choose to go fishing on my own, but Ky's enthusiasm is quite persuasive and usually just as contagious.  After an earlier trip to purchase most of the necessary fishing equipment from the local sporting goods store, an extensive conversation with the seemingly competent sales person, and several hours of reading on the internet about how, where, and when to catch fish as well as what fish one could expect to hook in North Florida (my inherent skepticism was looking for an answer to the question why one would want to try to catch fish when the Publix down the street offered a perfectly nice selection of seafood), we set off early Saturday morning on the 9th of October to purchase some bait (shrimp and minnows) and headed to our favorite Northeast Florida beach.

I let the fisherman do his work, while I adopted the role of photographer with my relatively new digital camera (a gift from the fisherman in question).  Having finally read my manual, which was actually supposed to be a precondition for my use of the camera, and having learned a few things from our household's professional photographer (and amateur fisherperson), I managed to snap a few worthwhile pics.

Without further ado, I present you with a photo montage of a "fall" fishing scene from Fernandina Beach, Florida:


Le Catch du jour







Old Man and the Sea :)

A Swell Season: Living the American (in Paris) Dream

Many of our most exciting opportunities in life operate less on the idea that more is better and rather on a scale similar to that of diminishing marginal returns.  The first experience is amazing as everything is new (the curve is sloped steeply upwards).  If we are so fortunate as to have the same experience a few more times, the curve is probably still positively sloped but slightly less steep.  Eventually, the curve may simply flatten out, and even begin to slope negatively as the repetition of the experience may begin to be tiresome or even boring.

However, as is the case with most "laws" of economics, the law of diminishing marginal returns comes with the condition of ceterus paribus (all else being equal).  It also assumes that each input (i.e. each experience) is homogeneous.  Fortunately, this has not been the case with my experiences in France.

As I boarded the plane in Philadelphia and the map of our flight path filled each of the personal entertainment devices on the seat backs, I was reminded of my first European adventure fourteen years ago when I joined a group of 11 other 15/16 year olds for a tennis tour across England.  I have learned a great deal from my many voyages since then.  If nothing else, I have learned to equip myself in order to make 6 hour+ plane rides as comfortable as possible.  Thus, I began my 9 month stay in France in style, armed with a pair of slippers, 2 books, layered clothing suitable for a variety of in-cabin temperatures, instant coffee packets and plenty of healthy snack options to supplement any failure on the part of the airline to provide palatable sustenance.

Consequently and in conjunction with a capable flight crew and the cooperation of all other forces outside of our immediate control, the trip went off without a hitch.  Even the subsequent bus and taxi rides from Roissy-Charles de Gaulle to the Gare de Lyon and from the gare to my abode in Saint Mandé went splendidly (a bit of a shock since many of the other forms of transportation were experiencing significant delays as a result of striking (les grèves) throughout the country).

I'll be rather brief in my description of the "banlieue" (suburb) where I live.  The town is called Saint-Mandé, and while it is technically outside of the "boulevard périphérique" (the ring road) i.e. outside of where the walls once stood that formerly encircled and protected the city of Paris , I am still very connected to the city.  One of the major advantages of living out here is that my little studio (a truism, perhaps, if not simply redundant) is just across the street from one of the largest green spaces in Paris, le Bois de Vincennes ("bois"= woods) .  I'll post pics later, but if you type "Saint Mande France" into Google maps, you'll be able to gain a little perspective on the size, an idea of which my photographs could never do justice.  There is a parc zoologique (unfortunately closed for renovations until 2013), a couple of lakes/ponds, and lots of gravel paths, bike paths, benches, trees and grass.  There is even a tennis court or two on the north side of the park.

The first days of setting up camp (l'installation, comme on dit en français), is always filled with excitement, some inconveniences, and lots of exploration.  One of my favorite outings when I am abroad is the first trip to the supermarket, or grocery store, rather.   Walking into a food shop in a foreign country (at least in those that I have explored in Europe) is like walking into Ali Baba's cavern.  In your home country, although each store has its particularities, some stores are more, or less, posh than others, the products on the shelves are quite similar from shop to shop.  If you've never been in a grocery store/supermarket in France, it is quite difficult to appreciate the size of the cheese and yogurt/creamy dessert section.  Even in the smaller stores, it usually spans at least 2 full rows of refrigerated cases.  (Maybe I'll get a chance to photograph it later.)  Fortunately, there are many factors that limit the urge to try everything.  Probably the most important is the size of one's pocketbook, but other factors include the size of the mini-fridge as well as the half-mile walk, with bags, back to the apartment.  However, this is the luxury of having already made several long stays in France.  And with 9 more months of taste-testing opportunities, I am sure not to leave disappointed (or perhaps a few kilos heavier!)

My first day also included a trip to the bank to begin the process of opening an account chez ("at the house of") BNP Paribas - you've probably seen their ads on TV as they are one of the major sponsors of Roland Garros, i.e. The French Open.

Since one of the major reasons that I am in Paris this year is to finish my dissertation, I decided that my first day should include obtaining my library card at the Bibliothèque Nationale de France (the BNF, pronounced Bay-En-Ef).  This is not your average library card subscription.  Verification of a pulse is far from the only requirement needed to gain access to this prestigious library's collection.  Equipped with ALL of my important documents (you never really know what is going to be required to complete administrative tasks in France - think DMV) I headed over to the BNF.  They checked everything, including, but not limited to, a letter of recommendation from my dissertation advisor, a copy of my passport, my possible criminal record and required the promise of my first born child in case I damage or "accidentally" set fire to a book (OK, I may be operating in slight hyperboles).  With the preceding formalities out of the way, the employee took my photo, printed my card, and sent me to his colleague at the entrance to pay my 35 euros fee.  Yay!  I'm officially a member of the BNF cult.  I now have the right to reserve a seat (yes, you really do have to reserve, sometimes several days in advance) and submit requests to librarians for them to deliver articles and books to me after a delay of 15-30 minutes.  Coming from America, it sounds totally paranoid and bureaucratic, and it probably is in part, but it is also an aspect of France that, while at times frustrating, is also sort of endearing.  When you know the system and know what initiation requires, you feel like a true insider when you are able to accomplish a task without any more than the normal level of rigmarole.

As it turns out, there is actually a very dangerous store located kitty-corner to the BNF.  The shop in question is called Decathlon, the most amazing vendor of sports clothing and equipment I have ever encountered.  It puts Dick's, Sports Authority, Academy, and all others to shame, not simply by its selection, but also as a result of the relationship between the quality and price.

As a reward for having persevered at the library, I went there in search of a bike for my travels around town.  Although Paris has a wonderful bike-sharing program called "Vélib" (vélo + liberté = bike + freedom), it works primarily for Paris to Paris destinations.  Since I am in the banlieue, and travel to other banlieues, this poses a slight travel headache.  There are Vélib stations in Saint-Mandé, but not in Créteil where I will be teaching.  So, after a little online research and verification in person, I dispensed with the 80 euros for the black (orange was also an option) B'twin (pronounced "between") Vitamin (vee-ta-meen).  For those concerned about my safety while riding among Parisian drivers, I also purchased a helmet.  (Pics to come.)   After the in-store assembly and the requisite debit from my bank account, I borrowed a pair of scissors from the giftwrap station, and rode my new bike back to the suburbs.  I felt completely anti-athletic and totally Parisian as I rode home in my jean skirt, leggings, and boots.  Although most people might not find this to be a positive, my bike has only one gear.  Consquently, I am forced to pedal slowly, which helps to prevent the normal amount of sweating that usually comes with riding a bike.  Since the plan is to use my new "vélo" (vay-low) for the trajectory to and from teaching, the effort constraint is actually a plus.  I'll restrict my more vigorous athletic pursuits to running and tennis.

To finish off a long blog entry and an even longer day (which began at 6 am East Coast time -midnight Paris time - on the 12th and didn't end with bedtime until 1am - Paris time - on the 14th), I met up with an old friend of mine from Middlebury.  We had studied in Paris and Vermont together in 2003-2004.  Her name is Kelly, and she recently married a French guy and is now living in Paris permanently with a cool gig in PR at Amazon.fr.   We met up for drinks and a light dinner of saumon fumé (smoked salmon) and salade de chevre chaud (hot goat cheese salad) at a little cafe in the 19th arrondissment called La Marmite before heading to the concert down the street at the intimate concert venue, La Cigale, for a performance by The Swell Season (Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova from the movie "Once" - their song "Falling Slowly" won Best Original Song at the Oscars a few years ago).  Both the company and the concert were awesome!  If you ever have a chance to see The Swell Season in concert, go!  If you ever have the chance to see The Swell Season in concert in Paris, well, all the better.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Last Days of Summer

The front bed and mulch is Ky's handiwork
Although the Fall equinox officially occurred about 2 weeks ago, the marginally cooler temperatures are still fashioning their appearance on the North Florida stage.  Peeping its head out from behind the palm trees, the 83-degree high is a welcome departure from the oppressive mid-summer heat and humidity that welcomed us upon our arrival.  Over the past month or so, Kyle and I have enjoyed whacking the yellow ball around, tearing out vines and weeds in an effort to beautify the greenspace around our house, and introducing family members to our new home and accompanying playground. 

In late August, Ky's wonderful sisters made a brief stop to our humble stomping grounds before visiting more extravagant and exotic destinations in NYC and Alaska.  As will likely be the case with most of our guests (you have all been forewarned), we trekked up to our favorite stay-cation local in Amelia Island/Fernandina Beach.  Kerry and Kim's second full day here was devoted to supporting the local economy via trips to Best Buy (x2) and the Sports Authority.  Their generous contributions to the sporting goods store earned them a 50-dollar gift card, which they so graciously bestowed upon Kyle.  (Today, we made our weekly journey to the east side of I-95 to redeem the coupon for Ky's new fishing rig.)




Labor Day weekend not only welcomed September to North Florida but also my parents  on their inaugural trip to Jax.  In addition to the requisite trip to Fernandina, we also ventured down to St. Augustine for some first-hand colonial history.  After attending a canon-firing demonstration by some felt-clad faux-Spanish military, we admired the sailboats, ski boats and kayaks passing in front the Castillo San Marco, just as a trio of playful dolphins was making its way across the intercoastal waterway.

In what we thought we be our last weekend together before my departure for France in mid-September, Ky and I exchanged a couple of Groupons for a relaxing morning at the Jacksonville Zoo and Botanical Gardens.  My dear boyfriend marveled at the creepy crawlers and reptiles, while I preferred the more playful, less venomous otters and penguins.  Although we bypassed many of the Zoo's more interactive attractions like feeding the girafes, petting the stingray, and frolicking on the carousel, we did allow our inner child a chance to mix syrups at the shaved ice stand for a late morning treat.

During the week, Ky has been working dutifully at his cubical to help prepare CSX for the next Microsoft upgrade while I have been, at times, at home reading and, at others, on the road preparing for my eventual trip to France.  After a mid-week, 12-hour round trip drive to Miami, which only included a 10 minute stop in Miami (I think I may have paused longer at a travel plaza along the way!) for my appointment at the French consulate, I finally have a work visa in my passport!  The long-awaited document appeared at our door Saturday morning while Ky and I were working at our respective morning chores.  So, the new date has finally been set.  As of Tuesday morning, October 12, Ky and I begin our 9-month stint (well, the French government has actually helped us out by shortening it to 8-months) as a Skype couple.  I will miss him terribly and wish that we could share in this French adventure together.  Nonetheless, I am looking forward to this opportunity to reacquaint myself with Paris, teach English, finish my dissertation, as well as spend time with friends and travel.



In our second to last weekend together before the trip, we enjoyed a relaxing Saturday and a beautiful Sunday afternoon and evening with our dear friends, Mr. and Mrs. Corse.  They treated us to a little wakeboarding and boating, and we joined them for hamburgers and beer at a local sports bar, where the mood went from anxious to celebratory after the local NFL team pulled off an unexpected win over Manning's Colts with a 59-yard field goal.
Mr. Corse, our skipper

This Sunday evening marks the beginning of my last full week in Jax before crossing the Atlantic.  As I ready my heart, my mind and my suitcases for Paris, I look back on the past 13 months that Ky and I have spent together with extreme fondness.  I look forward to all that the future has in store for us.  I love you, Ky, and I will miss you énormément! xoxo

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Clay and Sand: A weekend at Amelia Island Plantation and Fernandina Beach

After several of months of working on making some serious improvements to my game, the moment of truth had arrived.  This past Saturday morning, Ky once again indulged me my submitting to an early wake-up call.  We headed out the door at 6:45 in order to arrive at Amelia Island Plantation (about an hour's drive from Jax) for a warm-up hit and a 9am match.  Having not played a tournament in about 7 years, the first match was actually ok.  I was very nervous in the first set, and there were a few aspects of my game that weren't cooperating.  Nonetheless, it was fun, and I played pretty well.  I ended up losing to the eventual winner of the tournament 2 and 2.

The next day, we went back for my final match.  My first round in the consolation bracket was cancelled due to a default, so I played in the finals on Sunday morning.  The heat was brutal and my 15 year-old opponent answered many of my more penetrating shots with an arsenal of moonballs.  Nonetheless, I managed to prevail and pull out a 2 and 2 win.

Following the tournament, Ky and I decided to put on our tourist caps and head up to Fernandina Beach.  We found a cute little bar (Green Turtle Tavern) in downtown Fernandina where we enjoyed a couple of Newcastles as well as some average sliders (mini hamburgers) and a very tasty bbq pulled pork wrap.  We rewarded our active weekend with some Rocky Road and Cookies and Cream ice cream at the corner fudge shop.

Finally, we headed over to the beach.  It was perfect!  As long as your car was equipped with 4-wheel drive, you could park on the sand just above the high tide mark.  The beach was wide and flat, perfect for a run or a bike ride if one were so inclined.  In addition, you could choose to set up camp in a busier area (right near the entrance), or you could walk down a little bit further for a little more seclusion.    Below, I have included pics of our petite promenade sur la plage.

Monday, August 9, 2010

St. Augustine City Scramble

After one week together in Florida, Ky and I ventured down to America's oldest city/settlement, St. Augustine.  Our trip was motivated primarily by a race called "The City Scramble".  I learned about it through a "side deal" on the website "Groupon", for which I received daily emails about specials in the area for a variety of businesses. Most of the specials are for restaurants and other businesses in the service industry, but this particular deal was for half-off registration for a team of two to the St. Augustine stop on the City Scramble tour.  It seemed like the perfect opportunity to visit a new place in Florida while also getting a little bit of exercise.  (Who knew it would also turn out to be a test of our ability as a couple to work together and communicate under pressure! UPDATE: I think we passed! :)

When we arrived at 7:15 AM for an 8 o'clock start, we discovered that I hadn't actually registered for the race.  Apparently there was another link I was supposed to visit after purchasing the Groupon.  My mistake ended up being of no consequence since we were on the list and we just needed to fill out a waver and invent a team name.  So, a couple of signatures and a quick brainstorming session later, the "Half Boks" were ready for their next adventure.  Having received our race numbers, we set off in search of a bathroom and for a short exploration of the immediate area.  Since neither of us had ever been to St. Augustine, we thought it might help to get a feel for the lay of the land since we would be required to figure out clues about and take a self-photo in front of various landmarks throughout the race.

A little before 8, we meandered back to the starting location, which was situated on the front porch of a St. Augustine eating establishment.  On our number was written a name: "Warren Sapp".  Since we hadn't initially registered with a team name, I thought maybe we had someone else's race number who hadn't shown up.  Then, I overheard one of the race organizers saying that the name on the bib would be useful during the race.  So, I pulled out my trusty iPhone (the race rules allow you to use any kind of technology to help you with clues - even telephone calls to friends and family to ask them to find the answers for you!) to inquire about the identity of the aforementioned "Warren".  Wikipedia informed us that Mr. Sapp was born in Florida and played professional football for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.  I also happened to notice that he was not that much older than Ky and me.  Less than 10 years.  This was a very useful observation since the start of the race required us to identify the decade in which the person indicated on our race number was born in order to receive the clues for the rest of the race.

We were the first group to correctly identify our celebrity as having been born in the 1970s.  However, we were not the first ones to finish the entire race.  There were 12 clues that led us to various challenges and landmarks throughout St. Augustine.  We ended up running about 5-6 miles to and from the locations and returned in about an hour and a half.  Although we were relatively strategic about how to proceed (since we weren't obligated to complete answers the clues in the order they were positioned on the sheet, we were able to figure out each of the locations and take our photos in front of them in an order that would allow us to be as efficient as possible.  However, not all the clues were as easily solvable as a simple trip to Wikipedia.)  We ended up answering two questions wrong which meant a penalty of 20 minutes for each mistake.  Even though we didn't win the 500 dollar prize for first place (I think we probably came in about 5th-8th out of around 20-something teams), we had a great time exploring St. Augustine.  We also came away with some fun pics.  Notice our fancy team uniform! :)

A photo montage of our scavenger hunt through the city of St. Augustine:

Oops! ;)
This one's for you mom!
Too slow!
Cannonball!

First Days on the First Coast

We've been paying rent for a month now, and anticipating the move to Florida for almost 4 months.  We finally arrived!  Ky has been here for about a week.  He came down on July 25th, leaving in the middle of the night, so as to pull up in front of our new apartment just in advance of the moving van.  Having full reign of the place while I was off galavanting in north Texas, he managed to wade his way through the boxes and boxes (and boxes!) of pyrex (lots of it!), clothes (lots and lots of them), books (lots to the nth-power) among other various possessions, in order to clear out space for his workshop.  I arrived at our new place (via Birmingham and the Jax Int'l Aiport) a week later to find a few of my dear boyfriend's projects underway, including a wonderfully designed a special rack to house and hold our large inventory of sports equipment. (Pics to follow upon completion)

It was certainly no great kept secret that I was not the most enthusiastic of the newest Florida residents.  Despite my love of being outdoors and sports, the "nice weather" (since when is 90 degrees farenheit  with 90 percent humidity and a heat index of 102 nice?!?), I was having a hard time accepting the Sunshine State as our new home.  HOWEVER...I have since grown to appreciate some of what North Florida has to offer.  Perhaps this "appreciation" stems more from curiosity and a lack of familiarity with the land of Disney World and South Beach.  Several observations during my first week have softened my reaction to the new zipcode.

What caught my attention when I awoke on that first morning in our new place was the view from our bedroom window: a palm tree.  In my past experience, palm trees only appeared outside of my window when I was on vacation.  Now, I would be greeted every morning by the sun shining through this specimen of tropical foliage.  As for the people and the weather, it's really not that much different from Chicago in the winter.  The only people who seem to be crazy enough to be outside at these temperatures are the runners and the smokers.  Unlike Chicago, where people are friendly but not intrusive (not that I am suggesting that Jax residents are intrusive...), the people I have encountered have no qualms about a bit a friendly interrogation (southern culture?) in order to learn what has brought me to North Florida.  Our neighborhood seems to have a healthy balance between older, well-to-do residents and the slightly younger, seemingly more bohemian crowd (perhaps with some bohemian bourgeois in the mix).  I have also been pleasantly surprised to discover that it is a rather active group of people that inhabit the collection of early 20th century homes around us.  It is rare that I make a trip out of the house without seeing a few runners and cyclists.  One word.  Comforting.

Our first morning in Jacksonville also happened to coincide with my 29th birthday.  Ky and I had planned an early morning trip to the beach. (It was a little disorienting to discover that we are living in a place where the first sign you encounter to enter the interstate also guides travelers to the "Beaches".)   Those well-laid, early morning-birthday plans were slightly sidetracked by our discovery of the upscale-St. John's Town Center.  We spent a good bit of time (and money!) in order to initiate ourselves as Florida residents by purchasing all of the necessary gear to make the beach a little more comfortable and a bit less of a sand bath.

After a quick lunch at Panera, we made our way down A1A to one of the many beach pull-offs just south of Ponte Vedra.  As shown in the pics, we enjoyed a few afternoon hours of Florida sun, sand and saltwater accompanied by our picnic of a special OJ drink as well as blueberries and strawberries and cream.  Kyle even managed to get me into the water for a little while, despite my nervousness about the ocean currents and wildlife.  Everything seems so much less frightening when accompanied by my wonderfully charming and dashing African.   And so went our first day together in Florida.  Looking forward to many more to come. 


Birthday at the Beach
Ky and our set up on the sand (la classe!)

Checking the water for sharks
Post-mimosa coma
Enjoying the view and the company